Barry Becomes A Citizen At Last

When I first persuaded Barry to accompany me back to England to meet my family, in April 2007, I had no idea what the consequences would be!

The only way he’d agree to leaving his photography business for three weeks, was if we could fit in a narrowboating break. I paid his fare (I was earning good money then!), and he paid for a four-day-four-night mini Birmingham Ring narrowboating holiday. My younger daughter and mum and dad came. He was smitten …

Fast forward two years, and he’d persuaded me to take six-month’s unpaid leave from my job; sold his photography business DnK; sold both our respective houses and bought one together. We bought Northern Pride, and spent six-months travelling on the canals.

We both loved it so much, we decided to do it again he following year. Returning in 2010, we dreamed a dream that maybe, just maybe, we could make it work for the foreseeable future. But how? Barry was only ‘allowed’ to stay in the country for six months at a time, and leave for another six months. We’d just have to get his UK visa. That didn’t sound too difficult at the time …

Little did we know that the ‘Hostile Environment’ was being hatched by people like Theresa May and in July 2012, unbeknownst to us, she’d managed to change the ‘rules’ for Spousal Sponsored Visas so dramatically that obtaining Barry’s ILTR would become a massive challenge. Had we known how long it would take and how much it would cost, not to mention the stress and strain involved, I doubt we’d have been so keen …

The Timeline


By the time we discovered the changes, we’d already sold the house we’d bought together in November 2008, and booked our flights to UK the following March 2013. Barry could only apply for his initial visa from New Zealand. So we had the first added expense – another return ticket for Barry August to October 2013. Plus the cost of the visa specialist in NZ, and the application cost. We had to have £62,500 in the bank, easily accessible, and to prove it was ours. Barry ‘passed’ round one and returned to me in England, sat at Tattenhall Marina, ready to commence his Home Brew Boat business.


Round two. Two and a half years after the first application, we had to apply again. The rules kept changing, and we found it so complex we engaged a visa specialist solicitor to help. Not getting the application right could’ve entailed paying again to apply – which was more expensive than paying solicitors fees. We had to have the £62,500 again to show we could ‘sustain ourselves without recourse to public funds’. Additionally each application entailed detailed proof of the length of our relationship and marriage.


We actually could’ve applied for the final round in November 2018 – but as we were engulfed in our third Calendar Club season at the time, and I was building up my skills with Ad-Extra, it was the extra plate that we couldn’t spin. So we delayed the application as we had until a few more months to make the application. Same as before, we had to prove all we’d already proved, and had to have £46,500 in savings.

As regular readers will know, we make the mistake of thinking we didn’t need to pay the extra to ‘fast track’ this last stage. And instead of the six week it’d taken for the first two stages, this one took five months. Barry missed the holiday of a lifetime on the French Canals and Venice with some fabulous New Zealand friends who had planned their trip especially to have Barry as Captain on the canal boat.

Thankfully the end result was positive and Barry gained his Indefinite Leave To Remain. However …

It’s not actually ‘indefinite’, unlike my New Zealand ILTR is. If Barry was to have to leave UK for two years or more (which is possible, he has children and family there for goodness sake!), then he would lose this ‘right’ and have to go back to the drawing board.

So we decided we had no choice but to apply for his British Citizenship. Yet another outlay of around £1,500. But this time we felt confident enough to not go through a solicitor. So we did save that outlay.

At the end of December 2019, we heard that his application for Citizenship had been successful. What a massive relief!


Today Barry was awarded his Citizenship certificate at Chester Town Hall by Her Majesty’s Lord Lieutenant of Cheshire and The Sheriff of Chester.

Our dear friend Fred from Sheffield was one of the two allotted guests. He and Sara have been a tremendous support to us both, along with many others.

Barry has had to pledge his allegiance to the Queen and Great Britain. Which is not difficult for him!

He will, once we get his British passport, have dual citizenship with his New Zealand passport that he’s able to also keep.

Isn’t it ironic that we’ve had to wait until Barry has the right to stay before we could plan to leave and go back to New Zealand for a few months, after being here for almost seven years. I guess the fact that we have family and friends in both hemispheres isn’t taken into account …

Chester Town Hall on a blustery February morning
With Fred waiting for the ceremony to begin
The New British Citizen Barry Teutenberg
His new best friend
Cheers 🥂 We’ll done team Teutenberg/Walsh and huge thanks to all who supported us on the journey so far …

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  6. Hi
    Congratulations Barry it is the end of a long haul for both of you but you got there in the end !
    We must try and raise a glass together some time before you set off for NZ
    Best wishes
    Liz and Andy Nb MidlandStar

    • Thanks both! Yes please that would be fabulous. We’re still mooching around between Chester and Tattenhall, so if you’re planning to be at the marina anytime soon give us a call 😉

  7. A happy story with an infuriating subplot. I’d like to say that most voters in the UK have not been taken in by the xenophobic dog-whistles being used by the rats too gain and hold power, but I’m not so sure any more. Maybe we _are_ all stuck on a small island with Nigel Farage? Anyway, contrats to Barry, these mad days, the more passports, the better!

    • It’s quite scary isn’t it? The speeches yesterday talked about how ‘Great Britain’ welcomes diversity and how as a nation we all respect each other. I sat and listened but as not in the least convinced sadly. I wish it were true 😥

      Thank you for commenting Simon, and for your congratulations. Most appreciated 😉

  8. That it great to see that all your work and money paid has come to fruition. Our son finally received his work visa to go back to the UK, after a year. It would have much quicker if he had used an immigration solicitor in the first place. Now just a 2 week wait for his partners approval for a partner visa to go with him. Pages and pages of proof of relationship and a lot of stress, nearly at an end.

    • Oh that’s fantastic news Catherine! So pleased he’s finally navigated the journey. It’s been made SOOOO complex. I have no doubt intentionally. The false news about ‘immigrants take all our …”, or “people can just walk in here and claim …”, make my blood boil!

      I hope the last leg of your son and his partners return to UK goes more smoothly. X

    • He has only one pair of shoes that fit his feet! He actually wears them most of the time. Though he could have worn National Costume – i.e. shorts and jandals 😝

  9. Well done both of you for hanging in there. A proud moment HRH representive.Will we see Barrys framed cert on the saloon wall next time we see you. All the best Andy & Sue x

    • Thanks both. It’s possible it’ll be framed but firstly it’ll be used to give them more money for his British passport 😂😂🇬🇧

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